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Thursday, February 7, 2008
A Bad Day For Belinda!
A girl of 14 committed suicidebecause she was taunted by bullies who called her a lesbian and laughed at her dress sense.
Belinda Allen hanged herself from a tree using a scarf outside a social club after enduring more than a year of taunts.
We need to encourage kids in similar situations to know it's okay to tell someone when something like that is going on. I was tormented for not one but for 9 years as a child because of my lesbianism. I didn't hang myself mostly because I knew the taunting was just words. When I was thrown into the boys bathroom, I would threaten to go straight to their parents instead of the teachers first because I was in good graces with them. Adults, specifically teachers and parents need some training to identify these problems, too. Belinda's death was not worth it.
We need to encourage kids in similar situations to know it's okay to tell someone when something like that is going on. I was tormented for not one but for 9 years as a child because of my lesbianism. I didn't hang myself mostly because I knew the taunting was just words. When I was thrown into the boys bathroom, I would threaten to go straight to their parents instead of the teachers first because I was in good graces with them. Adults, specifically teachers and parents need some training to identify these problems, too. Belinda's death was not worth it.
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